Dinner conversation
Thanksgiving will be my first visit with the family since a brief stop on July 4th. A lot of has gone down on the national stage since that time. Obama had an overwhelming victory in the general election after a tough, rigorous campaign. The stock market has crashed hard, banks have gone belly up, and the economy looks rough for the near future. Passage of Proposition 8 caused an uproar and protests in almost every state in the country. There's no shortage of fodder for discussion. While you might think the election of Obama would be cause for celebration, there are some pretty hardcore conservatives in the family.
Why would any black American support the political party that has been all-but-hostile to their vote? The one not interested in expanding healthcare for everyone or helping get families out of poverty? The one that botched the federal response to Hurricane Katrina and led us into a costly, poorly managed war?
Well as many gays discovered on Nov. 5th, many blacks are socially conservative. The church's prominence in the black community is unavoidable. It's the number one way to get a message out there. So it comes as little surprise (although disappointing) that anti-abortion, anti-gay, and anti-contraception views are common, despite the very real problems of teenage pregnancy, STDs, and a general lack of safe-sex practices.
But our church isn't particularly political and ministers rarely bring up gays, abortion, or birth control. Most of these views come from the Focus on the Family radio program, which one female relative listens to every day (last I heard). In 2000 she said George W. Bush was a "good, Christian man" even while he refused to pardon a mentally challenged man on death row and called a reporter a "grade-A asshole". They even convinced her to support the Bush tax cuts, even though she's nowhere near the income level that would benefit from them.
So conversation at the Thanksgiving table should be interesting. Will we all deftly avoid the topic of politics? Will someone bitch that the first black president openly supports pro-gay legislation? Some of us are skilled at avoiding touchy subjects, others of us say what's on our minds without thinking. Others love to incite an argument. How much yelling will take place? How much will I laugh at the destroyed reputation of conservative golden-boy Georgie and the collapse of the GOP?
I'll be back next week with the 411. In the meantime, how does your family handle political discussions? Do you avoid the subject? If not, is there a lot of agreement or a lot of arguing?








